{"id":515,"date":"2021-11-24T09:48:14","date_gmt":"2021-11-23T23:48:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/meredithresce.com\/?p=515"},"modified":"2021-11-24T09:55:20","modified_gmt":"2021-11-23T23:55:20","slug":"alrighty-then-part-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/meredithresce.com\/2021\/11\/24\/alrighty-then-part-1\/","title":{"rendered":"Alrighty Then – Part 1"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

I like to be right. In fact it would be fair to say, I\u2019m obsessed with being right. I certainly don\u2019t like to be wrong, and just quietly, I have worked hard to make sure I don\u2019t find myself in that place where I might appear to be without all the answers. And that is all well and good until some bright spark pops up with a truly deep and disturbing question, the answer to which I have not a clue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Are you like that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When I do come to the awareness that I might be wrong, apart from feeling vastly uncomfortable, I like to be the one who comes up with the apology, as if it was my idea in the first place. I really dislike finding myself in a place where someone is taking the opportunity to let me know I am wrong, how I am wrong, and what I should do to fix it. This is not a happy place for me, and I avoid it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Are you like this?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This sort of behaviour might sound problematic, and I would be the first to examine it, and come up with justifications\u2014after all, I just want to do what is right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is at this point I realise I really need to look at my motivation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do I do what is right because I love God? Is it because I love other people, and want the best for them? Or is it more a case of I don\u2019t want to look bad? Well, to be perfectly honest, I don\u2019t want to look bad. Does anybody like looking bad? This often leads me to the place where I become addicted to being right all the time. But there is a major flaw in this plan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The older I get, the more I realise there are things I do not know. What person on this earth can possibly be right all the time? How can any one of us know all there is to know about everything\u2014from the outer reaches of the universe to the inner worlds of macro biology, no one can know it all. And that doesn\u2019t even take into account all the philosophical, emotional and spiritual questions that could be asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So these questions exist and they beg to be answered: What is right? What is truth?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I do know this, despite my addiction to wanting to appear to be right, I do not have a corner on truth and righteousness. Just because I want to do what is right does not always make me right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When I began to think about this conundrum, I was well aware of a number of contentious issues that were being highlighted in media and social media arguments. I wanted to know the RIGHT answers, and wished I could contribute from a place of some authority.  But I am not an authority on everything that needs to be examined\u2014theology, psychology, philosophy, scientific research etc. I know stuff, but not everything there is to know. Still I was troubled by what was being presented. I took out my notebook and began a list of contentious issues that are bound to raise hackles, if not passions. By the time I had finished the list, there were twenty-two issues written down. Over half of them were social issues represented by social justice groups. Now despite the fact that you might wish me to publish this list of contentious issues, I do not intend to, and this is the reason why:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Religious groups often feel they must take a \u2018position\u2019 on these issues, and that these positions must be made clear. This often throws fuel on the fire, and manages to end up burning not only the members of the religious groups, but also the folks affected by the issues. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Let me draw a picture so we can have a look at what is happening in our current western society.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Imagine a whole group of people in a large open space room, and that you are amongst the crowd. The four corners of the room are designated corners to represent your opinion or position on any given issue. For the sake of the exercise, I am going to label the corners as follows:<\/p>\n\n\n\n